I moved to NYC from LA a little over a year ago. My first trip back there is this weekend. However, it’s hard not to be disappointed by my friends. I told them months ago that I would be visiting. Told them the weekend. Told them specific things I wanted to do. Now they all seem to have plans for the weekend and want to recoordinate plans. Yet, the things I wanted to do are no longer possible on those dates. Was my expectation too high? Why is it that when I know a friend is coming to town I try to coordinate my weekend around the person visiting and not figuring out the openings I have in my schedule to fit the visitor in? I guess for me, it would also depend on my friendship. The only conclusion I can come to is that my friendship isn’t good enough with those people. I don’t konw what to think. All I know is that I’m not that excited about visiting anymore. I’m really excited to see my old boss… and I am excited to see my friends but it just doens’t seem mutual and that’s a bummer.
